Ten reasons to be married from a male point of
view
Now if you are female,
there is more on this subject, too. It is just not in this post.
And as a second hand male lion, I
still think marriage is better than living together, or even just being shacked
up for a while.
No.1 Marriage makes you a better man
If
you're a smart guy, you'll choose to be with a woman who is insightful, opinionated
and honest. That's the kind of companion who can make you a better person. She
can bring out the best in you. She can challenge you to be the best version of
yourself. On top of that, through marriage you'll learn the true meaning of
self-sacrifice and compromise. In short, marriage will make you a Better Man.
No.2 Married people are happier
A
recent study done at an Australian university shows that married men are happier
than single men. In fact, married men are 135% more likely to report a high
happiness score than single men. That's an astounding figure.
Marriage offers a man the kind of stability and support that allows him to succeed in all other aspects of life. Think about it: How much more could you accomplish if all the drama from crazy women and bad breakups was replaced by the presence of a loving and caring partner?
Marriage offers a man the kind of stability and support that allows him to succeed in all other aspects of life. Think about it: How much more could you accomplish if all the drama from crazy women and bad breakups was replaced by the presence of a loving and caring partner?
No.3 Marriage means better sex
One-night stands
are exciting because of the thrill of the chase, granted, but often -- too
often -- once the two of you get naked, you find yourselves fumbling and
bumbling and unable to anticipate each others’ moves. Married couples know each
other; they have a feel for each others’ bodies and are aware of their
partner's fantasies. Consequently, married sex is better than single sex.
Further, a long, stable relationship lends itself to sexual experimentation.
Admit it; there are things you'd love to try in bed that you've never told
anyone because you were afraid of being judged. But in a long-term relationship
founded on trust, you can give voice to your innermost desires.
No.4 Marriage means more sex
Married
men have more sex than single men
do. It's a fact -- supported by study after study. A study done by the Kinsey
Institute, for example, suggests that 23% of non-married men periodically go a
year without sex, while only 1% of married men experience 12-month dry spells.
Similarly, while 19% of single guys have sex two to three times a week, 36% of
married men have sex that often. So, while single guys are out at the clubs,
spending their paychecks just to get a girl's attention, married men are home
having sex with their wives.
No.5 Marriage brings financial benefits
There
are numerous financial benefits associated with matrimony. For starters, there
are tax breaks for married
couples as well as for families. Getting married might also mean getting access
to things like her premium health insurance plan. Like it or not, society is
designed to make life easier for married couples. If you're single, you're out
of luck. That's another argument in our top 10 reasons to get married.
No.6 Marriage makes you more attractive
As
our own Justin Prugh covered in his article, Why Do
Single Women Like Taken Men, married men are more attractive to
other women. Now, we're not suggesting that you should get married purely
because it will make it easier to score with other women, but we are suggesting
that marriage makes you appealing to the opposite sex. Getting attention from
beautiful women feels good; it's a confidence booster. Plus, when you go out
with all of your single buddies, all of the hot women will be hitting on you.
Who's laughing now?
No.7 Marriage prevents you from dying alone
Sure,
you're on a hot streak right now, dating 20-year-old yoga instructors and bi-curious
baristas, but we both know that's not going to last forever. How's being single
going to work out for you when you're 60, when you have hair in all of the
wrong places and no one can stand to look at you? Marriage is an investment in
your future. Sure, you sacrifice some of your sweet single years, but in
exchange you get to make a long-term investment in one person, building a deep,
abiding love that has the potential to last a lifetime.
No.8 Marriage gives you a platform to build your bloodline on
OK,
so technically you don't need to be married to have a family, but marriage is still the standard method
for starting a family. The nuclear family, despite its flaws, remains a
sought-after model. That's why having kids is another argument in our top 10
reasons to get married. Being a father is a dimension of manhood that just
about every guy wants to experience -- and marriage is the most stable and
secure environment in which to start a family.
No.9 Marriage increases your earning power
You
know that big-screen TV you've been saving for? Well, if you were married,
you'd probably own it by now. Being married means sharing expenses and
splitting the costs of major purchases. You cynics out there gripe about the
money women cost you, but the money you'd spend on dinner dates and the
occasional gift is dwarfed by the prospect of having an extra income in the
household. Marriage means you can afford the things you could never afford on
your own; it means a better home, a better car, a better vacation, and cooler
stuff.
No.10 Marriage makes you live longer
One
of the ways that getting married improves your life is by making it last
longer. Various studies have indicated that happily married men tend to outlast
their single counterparts. For example, a 2006 study performed by University of
California researchers contended that single people are five times more likely
to die of infectious disease, nearly 40% more likely to die of heart disease and
twice as likely to die accidentally. Other studies suggest that the rate of
mortality is a whopping 250% higher among single men than it is among married
men.
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