Arranged marriage vs. Romantic marriage ?
So i need to know 5
pro's and cons about each arranged marriage and romantic. i've thought of some
but i'm having a hard time think of 5 for each. Its for school.
thnx
thnx
Best Answer - Chosen by Voters
Romantic Marriage
Pro's:
1. You get to marry for love
2. More time to get to know future spouse
3. You get to make one of the most important decisions of your life for yourself
4. Reinforces independence and personal freedom
5. Can hold self personally responsible for choice
Con's:
1. Some don't last very long
2. Family may disagree with marriage
3. Individual may choose spouse based on lust instead of long-term compatibility
4. May have multiple long-term relationships and breakups before finding "the one"
5. May offend family members/traditions by choosing a non-arranged marriage
Arranged Marriage
Pro's:
1. Spouse selection based on wisdom of elders/loved ones
2. Uphold cultural expectations
3. May strengthen the relationship between two families or create a higher social status
4. Family support behind the union
5. Individual doesn't have to worry about finding a spouse, may focus attention on other pursuits - education, career, etc.
Con's
1. May be marrying a stranger
2. May disagree with family's choice
3. May miss out on having a relationship deeply rooted in romantic love
4. Family may make choice for selfish reasons rather than according to what their child would want
5. Usually no dating other people beforehand, so not learning what you personally want from a relationship
Pro's:
1. You get to marry for love
2. More time to get to know future spouse
3. You get to make one of the most important decisions of your life for yourself
4. Reinforces independence and personal freedom
5. Can hold self personally responsible for choice
Con's:
1. Some don't last very long
2. Family may disagree with marriage
3. Individual may choose spouse based on lust instead of long-term compatibility
4. May have multiple long-term relationships and breakups before finding "the one"
5. May offend family members/traditions by choosing a non-arranged marriage
Arranged Marriage
Pro's:
1. Spouse selection based on wisdom of elders/loved ones
2. Uphold cultural expectations
3. May strengthen the relationship between two families or create a higher social status
4. Family support behind the union
5. Individual doesn't have to worry about finding a spouse, may focus attention on other pursuits - education, career, etc.
Con's
1. May be marrying a stranger
2. May disagree with family's choice
3. May miss out on having a relationship deeply rooted in romantic love
4. Family may make choice for selfish reasons rather than according to what their child would want
5. Usually no dating other people beforehand, so not learning what you personally want from a relationship
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