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Wednesday, November 21, 2007

American values are not too shabby. One might even call them human and realistic. How classically new world.

One obvious point of departure is how we treat out women, our breadbasket of the future. Less this sound too course, explain the logic of big game animal hunting where all the biologists say hunt the males, and preserve the females. Most of us agree with the logic, which so far seems to work.

What is appalling is the emphasis by Hollywood, and the acceptance by a lot of America, that young fertile women should look like teenage boys. This image is wrong, pure and simple. Boys and girls are different. The old time adage of wanting to marry a woman that is like my mom at home and a hoar in bed is simply silly, and only reinforces the old time adage.

Rather we as a culture should promote marriage, and denigrate sex out marriage as not being in our best interests. As a father of daughters, the happiness of my kids following their being themselves makes a lot of sense. These young girls have alternatives, some better than others. Teaching them, and them reinforcing them, seems like a calm course of action.

The physical part is most embarrassing to America. Mother Nature made girls to have babies. This includes all the natural things that go on for girls to have babies, to include a spread pelvis, as in wide hips. It is about time for the opposite to happen to those so many in love and making babies. Let us worship and thank them for being a family and making babies. Let us also respect their abililty to say no, as in the old time make out days. Either cross your legs, girl, or don’t expect us to pay, both mom and dad, and society. That worked too, and both girls and boys had self-respect. Nature and culture worked just fine. Being shameful was intimidating. Being a slut was a bad term.

Lest we beat a dead horse, it is time to say the obvious. Babies born deserve, and need, both a father and mother to gain advantages in life. So parents cannot deny life. But they can define cultural standards, and try impose these same standards. What a tough job, but one has to give them an attaboy and attagirl salute as they do their parental job to provide their kid a good chance in life.

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