Chicks for free is another silly saying, though the line from the Dire Straits’ song was great to sing to around the world. Girls are smarter and just themselves which is also not too complementary to girls or boys, even in 2008.

In the same vein, men and women are now mixed in our western work force. And men and women have a tendency to want to get “together”. The rub comes from those who imply mixing business with pleasure provides business and job advantages. This friction alone will tear down about any business situation. And the answer is pretty obvious, never ever ever let business get involved with pleasure.

Less this idea sound too complicated, it is not. For example, married people are off limits. People from different ranks in any organization must stay apart, sexually. Basic discipline to keep business and pleasure apart must always be reinforced and supported by the Officer Corps or company leadership. And the intent is not to be repressive about sex. Rather it is to support leaders who must lead using their own trained abilities, supported by respect for keeping our zippers “zipped”. Never , ever, mix business with pleasure. The thought that one can compromise their sacred leadership responsibilities for sex is abhorrent.

Let’s reverse the idea and argument. Let’s teach our daughters to be normal American girls, whatever that means. Certainly it does not mean chicks for free. And let me be a normal mean protective father, as in mean to anyone who meets my female kid. Form all this things might sort out, OK.

To conclude, I have made my peace. If my kids want to be adults and get pregnant and have kids and a family life, so be it. Just don't expect me to pay for your adult decisions, nor welcome you all into my home.